Matrimonial Service
SGSSS has been successfully running the Sikh Matrimonial Service since 2001
For over twenty years, hundreds of young people have been assisted in finding their lifetime partners through the Guru Sahib’s Mehar and the tireless efforts of the Matrimonial Service.
The Matrimonial Service aims to support the Sikh community by providing a safe, secure, confidential and friendly environment to find suitable life partner, matches.
The Service is run by dedicated volunteers who inquire as to what the participants are looking for and then endeavour to connect them with prospective life partners.
Download Application
Download, print and fill it out the application form
Become a Member
Bring your application and membership fee and register at the Gurdwara
Browse Potential Matches
On approval of your application you may visit the Gurudwara to browse profiles and get assisted help to start your conversations.
Download Application Form
Ready to find your match? Get the application form below.
Matrimonial Service Location
The Library, Gurdwara Sri Guru Singh Sabha Southall, Guru Nanak Road
Every Sunday, 12pm - 4pm
Guru Nanak Rd, Southall UB2 4NP
Safety Guidelines
Initial Contact & Communication
Limited Personal Information: Avoid sharing personal information like home addresses, workplace locations, or other identifiable details until you’re comfortable.
Use Neutral Email: Consider using a separate, neutral email address for matrimonial correspondence, different from your personal or work email.
Trust Your Instincts: If something feels off or too good to be true, trust your intuition. Don’t feel pressured to continue a conversation if you feel uncomfortable.
First Meeting
Public Place: Always meet in a public place for the first time, like a café, park, or shopping center where there are plenty of people.
Inform Someone: Let a trusted friend or family member know where you’re going, with whom, and when you expect to return.
Own Transport: Have your own transportation arranged, so you’re not dependent on the other person for a ride.
Ongoing Communication
Digital Caution: Be cautious about sharing personal photos or intimate details, especially early on.
Background Check: Consider doing a gentle background check, especially if you feel there might be inconsistencies. This doesn’t mean invading someone’s privacy, but a basic Google search can sometimes be revealing.
Be Financially Cautious
Avoid Financial Transactions: Avoid sending money or sharing bank details.
Gifts: Be cautious if asked for extravagant gifts or financial assistance early in the relationship.
Trust but Verify
References: If comfortable, consider asking for references or introductions to family or friends after several interactions.
Attend Group Events: Participate in community or group events together before private, individual meetings.
Understand Boundaries
Respect Boundaries: Everyone has their comfort zone. Always respect boundaries, whether they’re physical, emotional, or digital.
Open Communication: Feel free to voice any concerns or unease. An understanding partner will appreciate and respect your feelings.
Follow-Up Meetings
Vary Locations: For the first few meetings, try different public locations.
Daytime Meetings: It’s advisable to meet during the daytime for the first few meetings.
Privacy Maintenance
Protect Personal Data: Even after the first meeting, be wary of sharing personal data like PIN numbers, passwords, or other confidential details.
Seek Feedback
Talk to Friends & Family: Share your experiences with trusted friends or family and seek feedback. Sometimes, an outside perspective can be enlightening.
Stay Informed & Updated: Regularly check for updated safety guidelines, and participate in any safety workshops or further seminars provided by the Matrimonial Service.
Remember, while these guidelines provide a safety framework, each individual’s circumstances are unique. It’s essential to always trust your instincts and prioritise your safety.